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I'm OKAY...You're A Brat! (abridged) I'm OKAY...You're A Brat! (abridged)

A Must-Read for Parents of All Ages, Wannabe Parents, and the Cheerfully Childfree!

This abridged audiotape presents the essence of Susan's fearlessly honest book, I'm Okay..You're a Brat! In this courageous book, Susan Jeffers breaks the ''conspiracy of silence'' and pulls no punches about how difficult parenthood is for many. With humor and compassion, she reveals the insidious guilt traps set by too many of the child-care 'experts' and the child-centered society we inhabit.

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'I'm Okay...You're a Brat' explains:
  • why parenthood is a joy for some and a nightmare for others
  • why what you put in doesn't necessarily come out
  • why our relationship with our spouses often suffer when children enter the picture
  • why our lives change so drastically when a child is born
  • why we can love our kids yet hate parenthood
  • why we can have great fulfilment in life with - or without - children ... and much more!

As people of whatever age read this book, you will hear a loud collective sigh of relief reverberating throughout the Western world!

Endorsements FOR THE BOOK

'BRILLIANT! A brave and revolutionary book that dares to confront many of our long-cherished beliefs about parenthood and parenting.' -

Susan Forward, author of Emotional Blackmail

'At last! An honest, guilt-free, and frankly overdue guide to raising for taking the fear out of responsible parenting. As an educator with over 17 years experience in the public schools teaching teenagers, (and currently teaching teachers) I enthusiastically recommend this book to all parents who need a refresher course on who's in charge!'

Leslie Lafayette, M.A., founder of The ChildFree Network and Author of 'Why Don't You Have Kids: Living a Fulfilling Life Without Children'

Table Of Contents


Chapter 1 Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me?
Chapter 2 I Want My Life Back
Chapter 3 Oil and Water: Sex and Diapers
Chapter 4 The Unspeakable Truth About Kids

Chapter 5 What You Put In Doesn't Necessarily Come Out
Chapter 6 Down With the Guilt Peddlers!
Chapter 7 The Mad, Mad Myths of Parenthood
Chapter 8 The Dangers of Full-Time Parenting
Chapter 9 There's No Place Like Work

Chapter 10 So Why Do We Do It?
Chapter 11 So Why DON'T We Do It?
Chapter 12 If One Could Do It Over Again...

CONCLUSION And When All Is Said and Done
ADDENDUM A Survival Guide!


My son, Gerry, gave me the title for this book and I loved it the minute I heard it. It makes me laugh, as it does most people who hear it...which is a very good thing. It also expresses in a nutshell the frustration that all parents, even those who adore parenting, feel during those very difficult times which are an inevitable part of the raising of children.

Understand that I'm Okay...You're a Brat is not an anti-child book; rather, it focuses on seldom talked about aspects of parenthood. For much too long a time, the rewards of parenthood have been hugely magnified while the woes have been surrounded by what has been described by a number of people as a conspiracy of silence. For many reasons which will become evident as you read through this book, I felt it was important to expose this harmful conspiracy and let the truth be known.

I'm Okay...You're a Brat is an irreverent, humorous, and poignant look at closely held secrets that many parents hold deeply within their hearts. On these pages you will learn the de-glorified truth about many of the realities of raising children. It is written with a great deal of compassion for the feelings of parents; too many books dwell only on the feelings of the child. My goal was to heal the pain, the guilt, the frustration, the anguish, the confusion, the anger, and the worry too many parents feel as a result of all the myths and half-truths they have been fed by our society. My hope is that in the midst of the humor and honesty, parents and would-be parents will find a wonderful sense of comfort, understanding, wisdom, satisfaction, and lightness that has eluded them before.

I'm Okay...You're a Brat is written for a very broad audience of both men and women:

  • parents of all ages who experience great guilt and confusion relative to the job they did or are doing in the raising of their children;

  • would-be-parents who need to see all sides of the big picture before they decide to take the big step;

  • those who want to remain child-free and need to know that this can be a very healthy and sound choice, contrary to what society has told them;

  • those who can't have children and need to know that their happiness and fulfillment does not depend on their becoming parents.
  • There are too few books about parenthood written with the honesty you will find within these pages. Most of you will thank me profusely for questioning long-held ideologies that have kept parents imprisoned in a web of guilt. Others will criticize me for going against the grain of their beliefs. But I'm willing to take that chance. In fact, controversy is a good thing. For when diverse feelings are exposed and understood, and when the illusions are smashed, we have ALL been set free.

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